In memory…
Last few weeks, Dyana n I were discussing bout forget n being forgotten…
The Question is: "which one is more pitiful?!"
The answer to it is: Both!
Being forgotten?! It’s really Bad. Just imagine… one day people u know (both well or not) just suddenly dun smile at u, dun wave their hand to u, dun talk to u. They Just TOTALLY Forget ’bout u… How is it?! Bad…*sigh*
Forgetting others?! There are some people that we love so much, n never wish to lose. However, when the worst thing happens, the only thing is just keep them in our heart, in our memory… Hoping everyhting that we have gone through together will Last…
This post is dedicated to someone i have lost long long years back.
Last night, that someone had just passed by in my mind, and tonnes of memories are recalled back…
The one who shared and taught me a lot of things, protecting me when needed… She will be always in Memory…
A very charm lady… Remember the time she taught me a game, the time when we sat in the door and she shared a lot of her stories, the time i came back from school - crying, the time i always had someone to be called as ‘po-po’… T.T Miss her…
However, the day when she had to left, we all know, she never left us… She is there, deep inside our heart…
A lot of things i can’t really remember in my past. However, one thing for sure - There are few things that I still can remember and will never ever Forget…
Lin ^ ^
July 16th, 2007 at 7:17 am
Hmm, topik yg menarik~ ^^
Forgot or Forgotten.
Mana yang lebih menyedihkan ya, menurut gw sih Forgotten de…
Karena manusia pada dasarnya akan dilupakan kalau mereka punya sesuatu yang sebelumnya dikenang bukan? Seberapa kecil kenangan tersebut, manusia berusaha untuk membuatnya terkenang dan diingat.
Nah, kalau dalam perspektif orang tersebut sendiri..kalau ia lupa akan kenangan tersebut, mungkin akan sedih.. tapi kalau kenangan tersebut TERLUPAKAN… menurutku lebih sedih lagi.
It’s like, something made an effort to be remembered and when it’s forgotten … How pain is that? People who forget may not feel so guilty because they forget! but the memory who is forgotten feels more pain than the person who forget!
July 17th, 2007 at 3:14 am
Haha… got a lot of lupa lupa lupa n lupa yo - ‘dilupakan’, ‘melupakan’, ‘terlupakan’ none of them is ‘better’
Forgetting memories - a non living things - might be pitiful for those memories. But the one who forget it also as pitiful as the forgotten one.
Can u imagine, when u forget someone in which u dun wish to forget?! Some might not realize how bad it is. But trust me it will be better where everything is remembered, both good and bad. As… Good memories told us that ‘Life is Beautiful’ and Bad memories, in another way, let us learn about Loyalty and Love.
Ever watch “Daddy Long legs”?! It’s a nice show. Shows how a person try to not forget all memories he has… If u want can get it from me. But need to pay, as it is a very nice movie. Haha =P
Lin ^ ^
July 18th, 2007 at 2:54 am
Hmm, ada benarnya seh…ga bisa dibedakan mana yg lebih buruk.
Mari kita kembali ke pelajaran bahasa indonesia yang benar.
“Lupa”
“Terlupakan”
“Dilupakan”
“Melupakan”
Semuanya sama saja, kata dasarnya kan “lupa” dan “lupa” itu dilihat dari manapun sama saja, sifat yg negatif dan tidak menghasilkan apa2… jadi… you’re right, both forgot and forgotten is bad! ^^
Tapi gimana ya klo kata dasar yang laen? tidur? ditidurin? ditiduri? meniduri? ada yang baik, ada yang buruk =p
Tergantung dari persepsi orang masing2~
Mungkin ada 3 jenis kata dasar ya…yang bersifat netral berarti bisa baik dan bisa buruk. Yang bersifat positif seperti bantu, membantu, dibantu. Yang bersifat buruk seperti bunuh, dibunuh, membunuh.
July 19th, 2007 at 5:10 am
-_-!!! jangan dikau stres dl, son… Sapa sih guru B.Ind lu dulu?! Pasti dia bangga, karena skrg muridnya keluar dgn teori sendiri, Teori kata dasar… Hoho
July 19th, 2007 at 6:49 pm
fufufu…menarik bukan teori Novemson? =p
Btw Lin, si Mahe ada blog yg menarik jg tuh topiknya.
“Apakah cinta lebih penting daripada teman?”
Coba baca n kasih comment jg =p